For women, then, poetry is not a luxury. It is a vital necessity of our existence. It forms the quality of the light within which we predicate our hopes and dreams toward survival and change, first made into language, then into idea, then into more tangible action. Poetry is the way we help give names to the nameless so it can be thought. THe farthest horizons of our hopes and fears are cobbled by our poems, carved from the rock experiences of our daily lives.

As they become known to and accepted by us, our feelings and the honest exploration of them become sanctuaries and spawning grounds for the most radical and daring of ideas. They become a safe-house for that difference so necessary to change and the conceptualization of any meaningful action. Right now, I could name at least ten ideas I would have found intolerable or incomprehensible and frightening, except as they came after dreams and poems. This is not idle fantasy, but a disciplined attention to the true meaning of โ€œit feels right to me.โ€

from โ€œPoetry is Not a Luxury,โ€ Audre Lorde (via commovente)


I never want to be tragic and I want anybody who romanticizes tragedy to stay approximately one hundred thousand miles away from me at all times.

so the dye turned out orange tinted ๐Ÿ˜’ considering just waitin a few days an doin my highlights and toning it then hmmm

wish i could have a clone of myself literally just to do my hair bc iont trust anyone else w/ it but its difficult to do the back