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spittingonhegel:
I’m trying to explain to my mother that domestic work is upaid labor and therefore that she’s being exploited whether she enjoys this work or not, because exploitation isn’t a moral harm brought upon you, it’s economic extraction, it’s someone getting more out of your labor than you are.
The family is one of the most politically fucked up institutions. Think of how we raise our kids to view their mothers as obligated to do this shit. The responsibility for tending to housework needs to be evenly distributed.
If you find that problematic you can go fuck yourself.
“The household is also the site of egregious thefts of services, where women perform thousands of hours of work annually but are not paid for it, and in fact sink more deeply into dependance and poverty the more committed they are to their families, whereas men benefit from women’s domestic work and often would not and indeed could not succeed outside the home without it. Women also frequently perform tasks for men that are directly related to men’s paid employment or careers, such as co-writing (or writing) men’s novels, or men stealing ideas from their wives without ever giving proper credit or compensation. Men individually and collectively become increasingly successful where it counts — in the public sphere — and build their empires on women’s backs and through women’s labor without sharing power with women individually or collectively, and male power is then wielded over all women abusively.” [x]
“To make a mess that another person will have to deal with—the dropped socks, the toothpaste sprayed on the bathroom mirror, the dirty dishes left from a late-night snack—is to exert domination in one of its more silent and intimate forms.” Barbara Ehrenreich, Made to Order